Interracial Couplehood--More Culture to Love

By: Danielle, EatBreatheBlog.com

Having recently committed to a long-term relationship, I’m thankful for the chance to say goodbye to the relentless dating game and just spend time with the one I love. As I look around at other couples I know, I wonder how they will fare in their commitments after having been “footloose and fancy free” for so long.

Contemporary views on marriage are far different today than they were in years gone by, especially when it comes to intercultural relationships. Even traditional cultures are having to adapt and change to fit into modern times. It wasn't that long ago that interracial marriage was considered "taboo." Today, it seems to be pretty much the norm, although there's no telling what difficulties these couples and their kids will face in the future.

Not long ago, one of my best friends got engaged to a young Native American from the “unconquerable and unconquered” Chickasaw tribe. That caused no small stir in her conservative WASP family. After she had a heart to heart talk with her parents, they seemed to take it quite well, respecting her wishes and welcoming the young man into the family. But there’s also the grandparents, uncles and aunts and siblings to contend with - that's quite a few raised eyebrows over the prospect of her being happy and in love.

Post-Valentine's Day Love — for Yourself

By: Maire - EatBreatheBlog.com

Valentine’s Day can wreak havoc on the emotions of even the most well-adjusted individuals. Whether you’re in a relationship or single and wishing you had someone to share the day with, Valentine’s Day can be tough. Now that February 14th is past, take the time to treat yourself to keep the spirit of love alive.

Schedule Some “Me Time"
With your hectic schedule, it can be tough to juggle work, school, family time and other responsibilities. To keep you from becoming too stressed, schedule some time for yourself at least once or twice per week. Make an appointment for a massage, facial or mani/pedi to pamper your body and relax. If a spa visit isn’t in the budget, a do-it-yourself manicure is a great way to pamper yourself for mere pennies. Or just block off time to drink a cup of tea and enjoy a good book or your favorite magazine. Scheduling me time into your smartphone or calendar ensures that you make it a priority.

Make Dinner Plans
If you’re getting sick of the same old workaday grub, treat yourself to a nice dinner. If you’re handy in the kitchen, set aside an evening to whip up a gourmet meal. Enjoy a glass of wine while you cook to help yourself relax. If cooking isn’t your thing, make a reservation at that great new restaurant you’ve been dying to try. Don’t wait for a special occasion—you’re worth the splurge.