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Guard your Heart!


Original Article: By Tony Gaskins

One of our biggest problems is that we give too much, too soon. We build up in our minds what we want in a relationship and we get desperate to receive it. Then we finally get something that looks like a relationship and we jump all in. We go in head over heels and we get distracted. We ignore red flags and we ignore the warning signs. We get signs that we should walk away but we stay because 
it’s what we’ve been waiting for. Continue reading...

Ladies "Beware" - 10 Questions You Should ASK a Man Before You Have SEX With Him ~

(Repost by Popular Demand)

By: Angela Davis

10 Questions You Should ASK a Man Before You Have SEX With Him ~
Now for those of you who think these questions are too personal, What's more personal than your VAGINA? There is NOTHING you can't ask a man who is trying to get into your Panties. If he can suggest sex on the first, second, third, or 50th date, you can ask whatever you WANT!!

Ask the following Questions PRIOR to having sex. Ladies you have to remember that MOST men under the age of 40 are thinking on the FIRST date..."how much do I have to invest to Hit it?" Most men are seeing you with ONE EYE. The Penile eye.... A mans emotions take time to catch up with his erection. The problem is Women are not giving men time to like them. To see them with BOTH eyes. Ladies dare to be different. Dare to be the woman that are not desperate. Dare to be the one that challenges him intellectually! Attract him with your spirit and your intellect. If he doesn't want to answer these questions or thinks they are too INTRUSIVE..he is NOT interested in getting to know you!!...Intellectual men appreciate Intellect!!! Now don't ask these question like an interrogation...Like Judge Judy....Be charming, be friendly, be playful...don't ask in a series like a Drill Sergeant!
But TRUST, this is information that you NEED, whether it takes two dates or twenty. Don't be a TEST Dummy. Get in his head before he Gets in your Bed...

Here it goes:
1) Where do he live: Seems simple right? WRONG.

Many many woman have sex with a man on the 2nd or 3rd date and you've never been to his house! It happened at your place or a hotel. A man could be married, homeless or living with his boy with the pink lipstick. He could be in a half way house. DO NOT have sex with a man whose home you have never seen, don't know his lifestyle or his address!! That's how women get tricked by married men. This goes for out of town men, military men...what EVER. You don't know where he lives..he DOESN'T touch your cookies.

2) Are you physically single: You have the ABSOLUTE right to know if a man is sexually involved with someone else. A booty call, his ex, a hooker. Viruses have a 90 day incubation period! If he's had sex within the Last 90 days..eatin out some chick and kissing you..he could have gonorrhea of the Throat!...You could be sucking up some other chicks coochie cooties from the night before!...Spend enough time with the dude that you know and ASK. Hesitation suggest a lie. Listen between the lines...listen to the silence and the umms and ahhs. Hes probably NEVER been asked that before. Take your time.

3) What are your relationship Goals: You need to know if a man wants the same type of relationship that you want! If he says hes just "kickin it" believe that! If he says he has no goals...then he is not looking for a serious relationship...however he may be open to one. If he says casual..he is not seeing you as relationship potential...YET! A man will answer according to his level of interest in you!!...Listen closely. Don't date a man who doesn't want what you want.

4) What type of women do he respect: He will hesitate if you are not the type of woman that he respects. Listen closely. If he says his Mom..and his Mom is a Deaconess at the church who has been married 40 years..and you're dressed like a hoochie, four martini's to the wind...your in trouble!!...If he says you...JACKPOT! Could be a line, but a good answer and a great start. If he says you..ask "Why"...

#Bruised But Not Broken

This is a re-post of an article I read about @SherylUnderwood  being - honest, humble and courageous with Respect & Dignity. She's a Beautiful and Extraordinary Woman inside and out.

I'm not big on news because it can be down right disturbing at times. But, I had to re-post and share this article I read. 
Ms. Sheryl Underwood is already known to the world as a comedian, some movie roles and of course as one of the Hosts of CBS "The Talk".

But, with all that being said, she's much more than her "Titles" in my own opinion! She was willing to be open and share with the world about an experience in her career as a comedian that could have been a breaking point in her life for everyone to see.  But, instead she kept quiet...until she was asked along with the other host's on CBS "The Talk" to share a "secret". 

I feel she was forgiving and honest - all the while keeping her Dignity and Composure. She could 
have took the low road to downgrade those women, whom had previously downgraded and put her 
down in the most disrespectful way. 

But, instead Ms. Underwood chose to be the Bigger person through forgiveness and thanking those women whom had downed her. And, she continued over the years to work with some of them and be kind to them with a smile on her face. Remember, kindness is FREE!

As I listened to her tell her "secret" which she kept over the brought tears to my eyes!

Don't get me wasn't only because she had been ridiculed; but also because I was so 
encouraged and amazed on how she continued to show kindness; knowing what they really thought about her. 

I refuse to condemn them, slander their name, disrespect them or put them down. 
I'm sure some of the Media Outlets have already jumped on that ban-wagon!  Which is not really called for. People make 
mistakes and say hurtful things that can destroy a persons self image. Believe me, I know from my 
own personal life experiences.

Ms. Underwood has shown everyone that - it doesn't matter what others say about you, call you or think of you; it only matters what you think about yourself and what you choose to answer too 
(in Tyler Perry's "Madea's voice)! 

Plus, I'm sure those women are regretting the words they spoke!

Please, take the time to read the full article on the CBS link above, watch the video and visit her site - Pack Rat Productions, Inc.

As she stated - she was #BruisedButNotBroken!
What a Powerful statement and Point of View

I really believe in my heart, as she motivated her to get to the place where she currently is 
in life...where God wants her to be!

I'm sure when she gave her story, she had NO idea of the impact...that it would have on others. Here's  a YouTube link to the video below at -

My final thought/question to our followers - readers:

What would you have done?

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